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Is AI Helping or Hurting Students? The Debate Every Parent, Teacher, and Student Is Having

Written By: Lee Elberson - CEO

TLDR

Read Time: ~7 min
AI is reshaping education—fast. Parents worry about cheating, teachers are divided, and students are trying to figure it all out. This post dives into the current debate, explores smart AI use, and offers practical tips for students, parents, and educators.  As a meta viewpoint on AI uses, I used ChatGPT to help me write this blog post. It took me about an hour to write the initial copy and about 20 minutes to edit this down.

Listen to my interview here.

The AI Dilemma in Classrooms

The moment ChatGPT entered the education scene, it sparked a debate that shows no signs of slowing. Some call it the next calculator, others call it the death of learning.

Just listen to what people are saying:

  • Parents: “Is my kid properly using AI?”
  • Teachers: “It seems like students are using AI to cheat instead of learn.”
  • Students: “How is this different than Googling the answer?

Clearly, we need to talk.

This Isn’t The First Time We’ve Panicked

Whenever new tech enters education, panic follows.

  • The calculator: In 1988, The New York Times worried that “students lean on calculators so much that they no longer know if an answer even makes sense.”
  • Wikipedia and Google Search sparked fears of plagiarism and misinformation.
  • And now, it’s AI’s turn.

Each time, we’ve adapted. The question is: Can we adapt wisely again?

Three Perspectives on AI in Education

1️⃣ The Student Experience: Learning or Shortcuts?

Students are using AI for everything from essays to math homework. But is it helping?

Pros:

  • Instant explanations for tough topics.
  • Personalized practice quizzes.
  • Essay drafts and writing suggestions.
  • Simulated foreign language conversations.

Cons:

  • Overreliance on AI can short-circuit problem-solving skills.
  • Increased risk of plagiarism.
  • Shallow understanding of subjects.

As one student put it:
“I think I’m using AI correctly.”
But thinking and knowing may not be the same thing.

Reference: Vox explores this blurry line in depth in My students think it’s fine to cheat with AI. Maybe they’re onto something.

2️⃣ Teachers: Watching AI Change the Classroom

Educators are on the frontlines, and reactions are mixed.

Some see opportunity:

“AI training is giving teachers a crucial edge in the classroom,” notes The Educator Online in AI training giving teachers a crucial edge in the classroom.

Others see risk:

“It seems like students are using AI to cheat instead of learn.”

In some cases, AI is allowing students to pass exams with minimal real understanding, as The Times reported:
Students can pass maths GCSE without ‘some basic numeracy’.

3️⃣ Parents: Caught Between Fear and Hope

Parents are left guessing:

  • Is AI a helpful tutor or an enabler of bad habits?
  • Should I limit AI use or encourage responsible experimentation?

As one parent put it bluntly:
“Is my kid cheating using AI?”

The Local and National Scene

Charlottesville’s Front Row Seat

Here in Charlottesville, schools like Charlottesville High and Albemarle High are experimenting. Some teachers are integrating AI into lessons, while others worry about AI-generated essays slipping through undetected.

Local tutoring services are also shifting. More parents are asking for help teaching students how to use AI effectively rather than simply avoiding it.

Virginia’s Unclear Rules

The Virginia Department of Education hasn’t released a consistent statewide policy. Some districts allow AI tools; others block them entirely, leaving teachers to create their own guidelines.

National Trends

Nationally, over 60% of students have tried AI for schoolwork. Some large districts, like NYC and LA, have moved from banning to embracing AI by offering AI literacy workshops and integrating AI into the curriculum.

Smart AI Use: The Future of Learning

Instead of fearing AI, let’s teach students to use it as a critical thinking partner.

Here’s how:

  • ❌ Don’t just ask AI: “Solve this problem for me.” 
  • ✅ Do ask AI:
    “I think divisibility rules are related to prime numbers and that the problem could be solved like this. Is this a possible solution? What am I missing? What is the category of problems that this falls under? What are some real-world applications?” 
  • ❌ Don’t ask AI: “Write my essay on early U.S. colonization.” 
  • ✅ Do ask AI:
    “I believe early U.S. colonization was shaped by economic pressures and political rivalries. Can you help me explore the counterarguments and refine my thesis?” 

The goal is to make AI a thinking partner, not a thinking replacement.

Smart Ways for Students to Use AI This Summer

For Students

  • Interactive Practice: Use AI chatbots for quizzes.
  • Daily Writing: Generate writing prompts, but write drafts yourself.
  • Math Help: Ask AI for step-by-step breakdowns.
  • Language Practice: Simulate conversations in foreign languages.
  • Early Feedback: Get AI to review college essays before a tutor.

For Parents and Teachers

  • Treat AI as a co-pilot.
  • Ask how students used AI, not just if.
  • Encourage students to reflect on what AI taught them vs. what they learned themselves. 

Final Thought: Use AI to Boost, Not Bypass, Critical Thinking

AI isn’t the problem. Misuse is.
With the right framing, AI can elevate education. Without it, we risk producing students who can click buttons but can’t think deeply.

The challenge—and opportunity—is right in front of us.

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